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Romance fraud
The relationship that needs money
How it works
- Contact starts on a dating app or social media. Weeks of warm, daily messages build an emotional bond before money is ever mentioned.
- Then comes a crisis: a hospital bill, a blocked account, a customs fee, a business deal that needs paying.
- A very common variant: the "partner" also teaches you to invest on a platform they control.
Red flags
Never meets in person
Asks for gift cards or crypto
Sudden emergency
Typical caseA widower, 68, corresponded for four months with a "nurse working abroad". Requests began at €300 for a phone, grew to €4,500 for hospital bills, and ended with €18,000 to "release an inheritance" that never existed.
Do this first
- Stop sending money — every payment has been part of the script.
- Keep the chat and the payment receipts; note the account names used.
- Report it. You are not the first, and the earlier it is reported the fewer people the same account can reach.